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Friday, January 8, 2010

They will reject, but you can gain with it...

During the process of building your MLM business rejections will come, but remember, they will reject the opportunity of a better life, not you.

When we were discussing what you would need to build your MLM from ground zero we said that you would need to know “what you want”, “why you want” and “when you want it”. One of the reasons these knowledge are important is because you will find rejection, and if you are not sure of what this business means to you, you will fail.

Another thing to do to overcome the rejection is to learn what, and why, they are.

Lets check 2 of them:

1. Rejection from family.

Since the first approach in this business is with the warm market, and the family is the warmest market that you can find, this is the first place you will find rejection. A lot of the rejection in the family can be devastating to most net workers because they believe that the family would never turn on them. They do and they will. Not all of them. But the problem with rejection is not on the relation with but courage to look, and try, something different from conventional. Some of your relatives will not be ready for change, even is a good change.

2. Rejection from friends.

Why would a close friend, or a friend, reject what you are presenting to them. They do, and they will do, because they are afraid of change or they don’t want to give the chance to succeed. I lot of problems with friends rejections is locate in the fact that few people are able to be happy for others. One thing that you will learn in this business is that, you will count on somebody else success, and this is not easy to do, your friends, or some of them, maybe will need to learn how to do that first.

How can we handle the rejection from family and friends?

a. Believe in what you know is right.
If you follow the steps on How to build you mlm from ground zero you have a solid base for why you are doing this business. Believe it. It is real. It is true.

b. Remember, not everybody is ready for change.
Some people are so used to the same that they will not want to take any effort to change, even if it is for better. That includes your family and friends.

c. People have problem with other people success.
You will find that some of your friends, and some times family, have a hard time to let your success go. They need your help to learn how somebody else success can be good to them.

Those are 2 of the rejections you will find during your work building your business. It is not a possibility. It is a reality.
Be ready to overcome them. Don’t let them define what you will be, or feel. You know what you want and why you are in this business. You can do it.
What you gain? Straight. When you go thru these rejections you become stronger to move forward.

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